Being Invisible......

The urge to leave everything and DISAPPEAR.....

The urge to be INVISIBLE.....

These kind of thoughts have become a staple in our ind. Not only the Young generation but the same urge and feeling can be seen in the previous generations also.

But is it that simple. being invisible, disappearing from the world.....

We humans are social animals, yes some of us are introverts and prefer to live the least social life, but the important word is least. but not devoid of social interactions.

For most it feels good to be listened to, to be asked, weather its opinion on a project, trip, or just simple family matters. And when ignored on such trivial matters we feel excluded. but when things become difficult the urge to disappear is so strong that we forget this isn't easy and also not going to solve the problem.

Being not heard and being ignored leaves us fuming, but somehow we feel that going somewhere where no one knows me is the best possible solution to all my problems. being left alone(for most people) is nothing short of punishment but still running away seems good.

We would try our level best to beat around the bush but address the problem/topic. 

Yes its painful......

Yes it might be draining both emotionally and physically.......

But a problem can't be solved until and unless we try to solve it, it may be alone or with the help of those we trust.

Yes stepping away is a kind of solution to some problems but not to every problem. Plus stepping away for a limited duration, not forever. 

Delaying isn't equal to solving, it means taking a stepback rethinking, recalibrating our steps and actions, and when times right going at it with full force to solve it.

Being INVISIBLE not only takes you away from your Problem but also from those who love you and care about you.